There are 6 kinds of feelings in the love: It is all advantages to be cordial, believe in, meet the eye on every side
There are 6 kinds of feelings in the love: It is all advantages to be cordial, believe in, meet the eye on every side
The wonderful feeling that the love produces, extremely crazy sometimes, look like a fool again sometimes, let people present a lot of anxious state of mind unconsciously. A research in Britain shows, while falling in love with a person, will produce 6 kinds of feelings, including the physiological sex is excited; " love is blind " ,Think the other side is the most beautiful; There is a kind of cordial sense, believe in the other side; Produce sympathy, have pity on the companion; Would like to bear more responsibility; There is very strong possessiveness, hope the other side is oneself specially. Psychological director of referral centre Lin Zi in Shanghai consults teacher Wang Huai to tell " life Times " reporter together, normal manifestation when love of these feelings comes. Physiological impulse is the most direct. Under the function of the love, internal hormone will increase to secrete, wish eagerly to contact with the person of the heart appearance intimately, including leading along by hand, embracing and kissing. Moreover, even the shortcoming in the view of other people, have become the lovely characteristic in lover's eyes. Fall in love with a person, will produce a kind of cordial sense, believe in, rely on the other side. A section of healthy love relation, should regard the other side as the honour, know how to appreciate all inherent and external advantages of the other side. The other side will regard us as the honour everywhere too. In addition, the love is absolutely occupying, need promising each other loyally. "The love varies with each individual, but include the above-mentioned 6 respects on the whole. Because it is a kind of feeling to love, produce unconsciously and unconsciously sometimes. " Wang Huai say together, we will often meet " fall in love at first sight " Situation,see at the first sight one piece opposite sex,it is especially in which oneself favor type, the heart will suddenly beat, thereupon becomes nervous, palpitate quickly, hope to be close to the other side, also hope the other side pays close attention to. If one day, you found you have produced the above-mentioned wonderful feeling to an opposite sex, take notice of the happiness, anger, grief and joy of the other side, would like to share all troubles and pressures,etc. for the other side, then congratulate you, prove you have already fallen in love with he / her. (He Mei)
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