Be careful! Sex education is not the education of sexual life

Be careful! Sex education is not the education of sexual life
Be careful! Sex education is not the education of sexual life
Mainly solve the problem that the gender approves before 5 years old. In this period, the child's difference to men and women is often dim. This requires parents to let children know one's own body naturally before having a bath or sleeping, let the child define people distinguish according to the gender, and their difference is just on the first sex character. Meanwhile, should tell children, whether oneself is a boy or girl, resulted from natural selection, have nothing mysterious. 5-7 year old child until curiosity drive, begin, feel puzzled to boy and difference of girl. Sometimes, he (she) Will put forward various questions to parents. At this moment, parents should proceed from natural angle, answer the child's question simply and clearly. Parents, while answering child's question, needn't be excessive details such as involving, genitals,etc.. Otherwise, if does not say completely, will stimulate the child's curiosity, let children feel more puzzled instead. 7-14 year old whether child produce one period of period in sex consciousness rapidly, it is teacher and parents that carry on one golden times that more systematic sex knowledge educate to child at the same time. Seems particularly crucial if this stage carries on correct sex guide to the child. In general, when the person who talk to children before adolescence, parents can weave in the sex education content it through natural phenomena, fairy tale or fable,etc.. Parents can talk from the plant yield positive results, then relate to people's sex and reproduction. Parents can also be when accompanies children to look at programs such as " the animal's world ",etc., through talking about mating of the butterfly, reproduction of cat,etc. with child, help them to understand sex knowledge, but parents should avoid introducing the human sexual behavior directly, in detail, so as not to bring the harmful effects to child. If 14-18 year old educate in time, combine the intersection of child and sex knowledge that oneself obtain from medias such as the books and newspapers, network,etc. and then, child's understanding of sex should have been already basically clear. At this moment, school and the intersection of parents and sex education in child, should incline more the intersection of and the intersection of morals and, let the child establish correct sexual standards, the preventing from emergence with behavioral fault. Meanwhile, parents will smoothly that inquire the child's sex puzzles, it is anxious to help children to overcome the psychology that questions such as passing out semen or period,etc. bring smoothly t. This period, perhaps the child produced resentment to parents' education because of factor such as being shy. At this moment, know the duration and degree of heating or skill on the issue to should consider as every parents, for example, the child talked about some questions about other boys or girls pointedly between parents when being in nearby, books of some sex education,etc. are put pointedly on the bookshelf.


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