Education of person who inculcate with will inhibit child's creativity

Education of person who inculcate with will inhibit child's creativity
Education of person who inculcate with will inhibit child's creativity
While the child grow up, a lot of parents often inculcate one's own experience and taste with to children, do not hope the child takes the detour, trips and falls. Someone thinks, in the present and highly competitive society, such education is essential; Also someone says, this will inhibit the child's creativity. Last week, China Youth Newspaper Office will investigate the centre, the investigation to 2720 people revealed, 59.4% of the people think parents too many and is inculcated with experience and taste, will inhibit the child's creativity. 20.1% people have the opposite attitude on this, other 20.5% of the people feel " non- OK " . In interviewees, 68.9% of the people are the parents; " after 80 " Accounts for 36.9%, " after 70 " Accounts for 37.6%, " after 60 " Accounts for 16.6%. 76.2% of the people think, parents are inculcated with the experience, the detour wanting to let child go of reason Why do some parents inculcate one's own experience and taste with to children in a large amount? In the investigation, 76.2% of the people choose " not wanting to let children take the detour " first ,68.6% of the people think the reason is to " hope to help children to grow up " ,51.8% of the people choose " the social competition is fierce, parents eat what there is when being hungry for the ability to improve the child " ,Have 27.7% people think some parents " know child, grow up law " . Job Lin Ge, Deputy Director of Committee of Experts of committee of future generation that China cares, show, the previous generation transmits the experience of one's own life to the future generation when being interviewed by China Youth News reporter, it is the human instinct inertia. Perhaps experience that a lot of parents transmit is correct, but scarce to the essence of education knows and holds correctly, the method to transmit is not scientific. For example, discipline sternly, very common in the ordinary family, but the initiative and creativity that probably damage the child are developed. "Parents' different stages when discipline and should grow up according to the child are different to some extent. " Teacher of China University of Political Science Law college of sociology Shi XiaoYun thinks, the child is in children one, parents should rigorously enforce education on major issues of principle such as the values, moral sense, should create the stringent environment for child in other respects. Sometimes, the child may dismantle the small electric apparatus of the bad family, in fact this is that a child is gaining knowledge, study the skill. It is fully forgiving and encouragement that parents should offer. The child has reached adolescence, parents need to look for the common language with the child, "more effective method is equal exchanged, propose the suggestion, for child's reference. Besides serious problem of taking drug etc., parents want to allow children to make mistakes, for example chosen the speciality of the university, make opposite sex's friend,etc.. " Shi XiaoYun thinks, if parents educate the child " obedient " simply ,Judge whether children are outstanding with the mark, will destroy the child's creativity instead. Give children correct guide, participate in the child's creation, encourage children not to worship the authority blindly, could really train independent consciousness and creativity. In this investigation, 46.8% of the people think, the home education is the most important to development of child's creativity. Next successively: School (24.1%) , the society (14.8%) , child's inherent speciality (14.2%) When. Lin Ge thinks, as to school education and social education, the more important thing is " Baconian " in the home education --Just as growing trees should grow roots, the root has been raised, and then give to school and the society. " Baconian educates " Should train good habit, strong heart and education how to conduct oneself. Training the question of creativity, Lin Ge thinks that should rise to the aspect of state basic policy. Creativity is trained should become a kind of education will of the country, even educational operating mechanism, should not attribute to the home education simply. "Train the outlet of creativity to lie in aesthetic education. " Lin Ge says, leads children to widely experience nature and the society, it is they that " find oneself " Basic for route,too it is is it abundant emotion, be lasted quality, be lasted imagination and the the only effective means of creativities inherent. Only 38.5% of the people think parents are successful to one's own education "I think parents' education way fails very much, they like controlling me very much. " Live Liu Yu �Z of Beijing Huilongguan community tells reporters, though she has already been mothers of people, but still take the bitter with the sweet to the elder opinion, " this, to parents' education of me ' give the credit to '. There was not child-bearing information at that time, they can only imitate a generation's way. I can understand too. " Liu Yu �Z says, she hopes to give children more chance to do things independently. "I any other things leave her alone nearly in front of the intersection of child and 3 year old, only put the dangerous thing away, does something if what she wants to do. Over 3 and begin to teach her some public etiquette rules, guide her slowly. Now, the baby who she drew does not have necks, will I only remind she ' where the baby's neck go too? ' but will not interfere more. " In this investigation, 20.8% of the people say parents fail to one's own education way, 38.5% of the people think " succeed " ,40.7% of the people " generally say " . The investigation still finds, 27.1% of the people say, the education way that will not continue to use parents educates one's own child, 56.1% of the people say that can " use a part " ,10.2% of the people say that " will adopt the majority " . Lin Ge thinks, though the one at present is " after 70 " With " 80 back " Parents widen visual field even more, knowledge is more abundant, but in the state that it is irritable that the present whole society is in utility, most people look at problem and see not far. "I contact a lot of young parents, they look after the child development during the following 6 years only at most usually. I am afraid younger generation may be not as good as their former generation on the educational foresight. " "Without foresight, anxious that will fall into. Only if want it compared with others' child, will be studied faster by children by method to discipline sternly. " Lin Ge says, 30 years after if parents can see children, the education that could be rational, "such as child in 40 s, only physically and mentally healthy, show filial respect for parents, have undertaking and friend that oneself loves, this education is successful. There is this kind of foresight, can treat children with usual mind, give children more chance to explore by oneself. " Shi XiaoYun has a daughter who has junior middle school, she feels that it is very important to give children abundant freedom, "I will only propose the suggestion on her, let herself choose to judge, she tripped and fell after knocking into the south wall, know naturally what is to the fault. In the study, I have not required her to do in the test well, but her achievement in Beijing Fourth Middle School has been coming out at the top all the time. She always says that it is very happy to study. " How do ordinary people plan to train children? In the investigation, 56.3% of the people think that want to " trip and fall, take the chance of the detour for children " ,53.6% people think at the same time" It is necessary to inculcate one's own experience with to children " . In addition, 77.4% of the people hope the child " want to contact more societies, don't become a bookworm " ,Have 48.2% people hope child too " whether study more, own the intersection of gold and room under book " . (The source of this text: China Youth News)


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