It benefits your letter of the health to shed tears?

It benefits your letter of the health to shed tears?
It benefits your letter of the health to shed tears?
Indeed, reasons why everybody cries are different, or hurt and wronged, grieved, or frightened. In addition, in some people's view, the tears are not revealed by the simple mood, and become a kind of means to wrestle. There are two kinds of tears " the anthropologist find, it is people's innate instinct to shed tears, as spontaneous as sighing, sneezing. " The operation psychologist Zhang YuanXia in New York of U.S.A. claims, once the behavior carried on research to shedding tears in terms of physiological psychology in the fields lying fallow in rotation of psychologists of U.S.A. Minnesota university William and Buddha. In 5 year, he study to shed tears experimenter thousands of, the result shows, within one month, the number of times that the man sheds tears seldom exceeds 7 times, but the woman is here 30 or more times. According to the motive shedding tears, he divides shedding tears into reflectivity and sheds tears(stimulated by onion) Shed tears with the emotion. The emotion sheds tears what has been said usually really cries, for example we often see the on-the-spot rookie of the wedding will cry, will choke with sobs on the funeral when will cry, dispute with people. Zhang YuanXia analyses: "Analyze, it is four major primary emotions which are based on people to really cry from psychology - --Like, anger, sad and fearing. This is all because people's mood has been stimulated by the external one, act on heart, as the mood is accumulated to certain extent, must demonstrate the natural expression of the emotion. " The tears are other of one kind of tools, it is still a kind of tool to shed tears, while confronting each other with the person or wanting to obtain a certain interests, a lot of people will obtain and take the initiative through the tears. "It is for winning sympathy, so as to try to escape reality that someone sheds tears. " Zhang YuanXia says, on the on-the-job field, some have missed now manually, then rob before leading criticism and shed tears. They think, are leading and seeming, it proves oneself is bitter to shed tears, review deeply. At this moment, the leader must be knowing and soft, after all, it is very difficult for the delicate and touching appearance to let people fly into a rage. "Just like some insects, meeting the danger will be shortened into rolling, pretend the death, the psychology of this kind ' utilizes escape of mimicry ' and this kind of people plays the same tune on different musical instruments. " Adds that a source is chivalrous. Some people give the impression of weakness voluntarily, want, let oneself from change, take the initiative passively. Hilary and the intersection of and Palestinian very miserable in competition of horse, New Hampshire mention, run for when being difficult by state in U.S.A. January 8 as her, drop tears excitedly, these group she has won the electress' support to a certain extent. Zhang YuanXia says: "I want, it probes into Hilary to be to cannot help, just in the news, we see she has shown women's weakness voluntarily, has initiated the woman's feeling altogether. In fact, this is a psychological game, retreat in order to advance, leave oneself more largely advancing the leeway, thus know the competition initiative. " There are not too many tears by shedding tears, especially the emotion sheds tears. Find while studying, includes more proteins in the tears that really cry, and one of these kinds of efficiency may be similar to analgesic in Buddha fields lying fallow in rotation, so he infers, sheds tears and can help people to resume psychology and physiological equilibrium from the deep of the heart. "And research shows, more macrobiotic than men women, besides bearing immunity that brings to strengthen, mood is appropriate to lead off and perform meritorious deeds never to be obliterated too, among them it is an important respect to cry. " Adds that a source is chivalrous. But can't let one's own tears overflow everywhere. The name of having one to burn of psychological educational circles " James' blue gram of theories " ,Think people produce the consciousness to the fact first, then cause the body to change, apply to mood finally. So, will let the sad feeling stronger and stronger if not stopping crying. Finally, remind those to treat tears as person of the weapon, people all have tired one of psychology, can capture others' heart twice while crying upper one, but used more, everybody met strangely, the efficiency of crying must be reduced, will even cause others' disgust and or let others suspect on your ability.


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