Anxious after giving birth to two generations alone in only generation Nearly helpless and without resourcesly collapse (Fig.)

Anxious after giving birth to two generations alone in only generation Nearly helpless and without resourcesly collapse (Fig.)
Anxious after giving birth to two generations alone in only generation Nearly helpless and without resourcesly collapse (Fig.)
Ill gt; gt; gt; The child recovers but she falls ill in 5 months cautiously, initiates 38.7 �� of high fever for the first time. According to the quiet situation that finds out about ahead of time of forest, it will be probably infant's worried rash cautiously, may burn for 3 days in succession, according to the doctor's opinion, do not need to go to the hospital without burning to 39 ��, punish Jing Lin of patient in the face of a one's own one in hospital every day " The little patient " When, but more flurried than the ordinary person, asking the colleague, are searching one hundred degrees on the computer in the telephone, in being anxious and fearful in 3 days, go to work and also catch the telephone for the family frequently in the daytime in a such one just, inquire the situation and go wrong, often call out to family that shout youngly on the phone, bring down a fever after rejuvenating cautiously, the forest is quiet but fallen ill. In such anxiety, will reach a year old soon cautiously, the son grows up without relieving Lin Jing's appearance of the unknown question each time of anxious disease healthily, all Lin Jing's new and anxious beginning, though already no longer because child's thing of crying, playing and falling suddenly etc. at midnight becomes depressed, but every stages growing up cautiously, can always find out the new problem for Lin Jing. "The latest problem is all requirements that should meet the child. Child-bearing gt; gt; gt; After having idea contradiction to born in with the old man cautiously, Lin Jing's mother discarded the spouse to come to Qingdao to help the daughter to bring the child. Different from young monobasic mother, what Lin Jing's mother worried about most is to have enough every day cautiously, and always full of ideas to feed others meal that go down, fill out on the stomach to reach the child. "The weight cautiously has already far exceeded peers, I am a bit anxious, is such a thing, the contradiction happen too sometimes to us. " Lin Jing says, besides such a minor matter, the conflicts of two generations of person's educational ideas, just really let her have a anxious sense. "For example when my son plays with with child of the same age, in the hand after the toy is snatched away by other children, have never taken seriously. " Jing Lin say but mother just the opposite, want, educate grandson " how let him rob thing of you you each time, go to vie for. " Hear mother say so each time, Lin Jing a lot " some of preach " of mother correctly . Lin Jing says, under the trials of strength of a plurality of rounds, unified the view with mother at last by oneself, when she just felt relaxed, " the old play recur " these that blue and green mother-in-law who help to look after the child comes from the other places to make ,Let Lin Jing feel that collapse again. Start going to a nursery gt; gt; gt; In " the starting line is had " Make difficult to let Jing Lin feel not anxious most recently, to face kindergarten on where does it choose soon cautiously, even think a bit farther, where will the child go to study in the primary school afterwards. Lin JingYuan is originally right " Don't let the child fail on the starting line " This sentence is disdained to the utmost point the education of the child is annotated with concept of athletics sports, should be let children born to begin to dash from? But it is this kind of script that lets herself feel fantastic words, with the birth cautiously, become a kind of reality in life. "The public kindergarten is not easy to enter, and quality is different, private it is saiding is good, but the expenses are too high. " There are public kindergartens to walk in the place for 5 minutes from the forest quiet new home, she asked about a few days ago, do even security personnel guarding the gate ask her " is it long that you know our garden? " "There are acquaintances in the education system? " Several similar questions make Lin Jing a bit left without an argument continuously, mother of child that and the neighbour's has already gone to here to study has verified security personnel's statement, because the quantity of child can accept ing in the kindergarten is limited, do not pass the name on all sorts of relation really very difficult newspapers. Difficult than the intersection of kindergarten and issue, where after a child go to study in the primary school, it is the ordinary primary school at home that registers, in the west several " famous schools " Buy room of going to school etc. around, let, enter the a better the beginning after the child, these questions all let pays attention to Lin Jing that the child educated to feel headache. Each class of one hundred yuan feels to have a little " Wrong " Teach early if school education is the child-bearing necessities, the young parents like Lin Jing face the predicament in short supply, but get back to child-bearing by products such as present teaching early,etc., Lin Jing faces too much anxiety again. Lin Jing says, teaches the market a multitude of names early at present, there are ones that claim to introduce abroad, also have native development, after watching several, Jing Lin feel the intersection of price and your " introduces abroad " It is a little better to teach the organization an environment early, though price of each class exceeds one hundred yuan, but Lin Jing has gritted one's teeth for children to register. "Find, these are teaching the organization spoken parts in an opera early to sell the concept that they are packing after going. " Jing Lin say, at reach each teach early specifically, one class arrange very compact 45 minute, a plurality of links are participated in by child and parents, but seven or eight children come to class each time, each child one to two parents accompany, while needing on teaching aids such as slide, drum,etc. to do the activitying, it is the crow that presses and presses to gather around a group of persons. If does not want to rob with others, can only take children to play by oneself for 45 minutes in the classroom. "More than 100 yuan for such a class, it is not really a little worthwhile. " It is taught early, increase Lin Jing's anxiety too that waste the money as well as time-consuming, can only comfort oneself " perhaps they really benefit baby. " The intersection of dialogue and life to move round child reporter: Are you satisfied with one's own state of life of this year? Lin Jing: Satisfied, the child is very good, family are very good too. Reporter: Do you have any words having to speak out on this year? Lin Jing: My present life is to move round child, there is not a little oneself time. Reporter: Feel one's own life is happy, there is uneasy any, what is the greatest worry? Lin Jing: Felt very happy about present life, it was the child's educational problem that worried most, good education resources have been monopolized. Reporter: As to next year, what is your wish? Lin Jing: Can let children enter a good public kindergarten smoothly. Reporter Duan HaiYing (source: Morning newspaper of Qingdao)


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