Only-child's generation flashes the wedding flashes and leaves the phenomenon to increase rapidly Divorce the intersection of reason and the intersection of thunder and people very much

Only-child's generation flashes the wedding flashes and leaves the phenomenon to increase rapidly Divorce the intersection of reason and the intersection of thunder and people very much
Only-child's generation flashes the wedding flashes and leaves the phenomenon to increase rapidly Divorce the intersection of reason and the intersection of thunder and people very much
As the saying goes: Able to establish one's career at thirty. As a generation of only-child with the distinct distinction, young men and women born after 1980 are stepping into the palace of the marriage gradually. Turn some people on meanwhile, among them into " 30 from " . The reporter knows from the court of several districts such as the mountain of the storehouse, drum-tower recently, two to 30% of the total number that the divorce case of the people has already accounted for divorcing at present, and have the tendency to increase, the obvious characteristic that they divorce is that the marriage keep time short, the psychology is more gentle while divorcing. " the wedding flashes to flash and leave " The question stresses the typical case: Live Mr. Li on mountain of the storehouse enters a big company to work after graduation from university, shortly after young ladies tights which know lively and beautiful at introduction of friend. Two people fall in love at first sight, associate for less than two months and go on the red carpet hand in hand. After marriage, the tight young lady resigns the work of the other places, has become the full-time housewife. Having diminished social activities, the husband has become the life centre of her. She uses all surplus energy for following the trail of the husband, should search the husband's wallets and mobile phones every day, if find the information that husband and other opposite sexes associate, will make a scene, make Mr. Li suffer unspeakably. Lived together for less than half a year, both sides felt very tired, go to the court to divorce finally. The judge comments on: " after 50 " , " after 60 " Unless divorce, mostly live together for many years,marriage is it unable to stand, have for relation to reach from stage, just demand to divorce. But some " After 80 " More gracefully when seeming divorcing,it think of from from,a lot "flash from " Person say before this whether understand, never expect by he (she) So much trouble. And cause " Flash and leave " Reason,it is seemingly been exactly fashionable "flash wedding " . Scarce before marriage to understand in depth, without getting married carelessly through the careful consideration, the emotional foundation is insecure; And the rhythm of life of city is quick, the heart is apt to be impetuous, no understand after taking place contradictorily oneself adjusts right and forgives the other side, lack social responsibility, cause and divorce carelessly finally. Bad marriage of self-care ability of living is firm Typical case: It is small and beautiful and A is bright (assumed names) The university is classmates together, have already led along romantically by hand in the campus, has spoken of the love. Soon after graduating from university, they bought a house in the location of the centre of drum block under each parents' subsidy, and got married. Shortly after after marriage, they find both sides can not do house work, the self-care ability of life is very bad. They both are from Fuzhou, a total, go to each parents' home to " rub meals " usually ,Eat out, take weekend, family hygiene ask part-timer make, wash the intersection of clothes and little one put the washing machine, sending the laundry to dry-clean of major possession. Once, two people are hungry when going home after playing outside, but there is no food in the refrigerator. A shout light to go, buy some food come back downstairs while being beautiful tomorrow, say oneself to be even tired while being beautiful while being small very, let A buy tomorrow. A will begin to criticize smallly and beautifully and non- hardworkingly, smallly and beautifully and refute reluctant to show weaknessly too tomorrow, therefore the two National People's Congress has had a row. Both sides are to this everyday " Live in the hotel " The life of the type thinks boring, determine to divorce soon after marriage, and the question of cutting apart for the wedding room etc. made a noise to go to court. The judge comments on: The reason why only-child that born become, divorce high to take place crowd after the 1980, spoil with parents excessively while as a child, everything helps children to make a decision, form child's manipulative ability badly, lack tolerance and have direct relations, a lot of people regard oneself as the centre in this colony, social responsibility and sense of duty of the family are faint, this causes their marriage stability decline. Meanwhile, with the development of times, this requirements for of generation are higher, the discontent to dull life, make them unwilling to be not so bad, some " marriage death " initiated by the trival matters of life The phenomenon is getting more and more. In addition, the question of mostly having no partition and children to raise that they divorce, there is little worry while making them divorce much. Many reasons of divorcing " Very thunder people " The reporter still finds in the investigation, besides above-mentioned reason, many " after 80 " Divorced reason analogous to " Thunder people " : One party sleeps and grinds one's teeth, snores, says the nonsense frequently in the evening, another party feels sleep quality is influenced much, it is unable to stand; Couple's eating habit is widely different, one party likes hot dishes, another party loves the light food, therefore " deskmate's different dream " ; The financing ideas of both sides differ greatly, one party spends money liking buying the luxury goods wastefully, another party but itching to check to stand up on hand the intersection of every and spare cash, therefore produce the contradiction; One party does with others fictitiously and gets married on the net, think it is sheerly the amusement, but another party thinks the spouse has betrayed oneself, it is unable to tolerate. " judge and leave " The law has standard judges to tell reporters, " marriage law " stipulates, an important principle that the judgement divorces is that " couple's emotion has already broken truly " . There emerged a difficult problem for the judge in this fuzzy yardstick: "I do not know them, how to know whether their emotion breaks? " The judge says, if two people have no dispute in divorcing, generally allow to divorce; If one party disagrees with divorcing, and another party can not even take out several kinds of evidences of permitting divorcing of the legal provision, in line with not " mediating and trying to persuade leaving " Principle,will last chance court,advise recall the lawsuit or if you can't reject, if you can't divorce, appeal they. If couple will come to demand to divorce in half a year, the judge will consider permitting divorcing generally. It means within relaxation period of half a year, the relations of both sides do not have substantive improvement after all, it proves the necessity not maintaining the marriage in fact too to prosecute and divorce repeatedly. Get married after all having one's head shaved carrying pole with its load one hot hair, if one party want, divorce firmly, also it is difficult to maintain the family. (the reporter of old swan star of reporter Jin XiaoJing)


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